Wednesday, March 19, 2014

"Anger"

"He who angers you, controls you!"

Many times we give permission to others, allowing them to emotionally control us by what they say and do to offend us. When we hold on to initiated emotions such as hurt, pain and anger, we allow the perpetrator to control every aspect of our being. Whenever their names are mention to us we react negatively, encouraging negative thoughts and actions to influence us. Often times the per has no idea to the extent of the affect they have on us. Some however intentionally provoke negative responses.


Solution:

"Let go and let God!"

Go to god in prayer, asking his forgiveness of the one who violated you, simply because some have no idea of the way in which you were affected by their actions or words. Some however purposely wanted to generate a negative response from you.

Second, ask God to forgive yourself for feeling the way you do towards the individual and ask him to cleanse you heart from all impurities caused by such actions. This way, you are fee to carry on with life without feeling guilty and burdened by such a heavy weight.
You also block your blessings when you carry animosity and hatred in your heart towards yourself and others.  This is not an emotion of God!


We are all humans, however, when you know better and do better, you live better!

Monday, March 17, 2014

"Mistake or No?"

   

"A mistake made more than once becomes a habit, but several mistakes leads to experience, wisdom and knowledge!
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Don't be discouraged if you make a mistake. It simple means you haven't mastered or perfected the art of what you're doing. Maybe it means that you haven't learned the valuable lesson!  But if you keep optimistic and ask God to guide you as well as equip you with the wisdom needed to accomplish each task assigned by him....eventually that mistake would have turned into an accomplished lesson learned!